Changing Your Map From Green To Blue

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Once you've filled out your map, no matter how much you feel like you've traveled the world over, you are bound to find gaping holes; deep shades of gray and green -- the cruel colors of unfulfilled potential. It's one of the most common post-map-pinning feelings. Unless you're Sir Richard Branson or Magellan, your completed map can leave you feeling pretty... incomplete. And small. But it doesn't have to be this way. Trust us.

The top five countries Where I've Been users want to visit aren't nearly as out of reach as they may seem, and we can prove it to you. Find out the top five most-desired countries and learn about the best times to travel to them, how to get in cheaply and myths about traveling there.

5. Japan

Dream counter: 1,401,508 Where I've Been users want to go to Japan.
Why are we putting it off? Like most countries that will appear on this list, Japan's remoteness renders it a longer trip, which means more careful planning is necessary and extra travel days must be set aside. Japan is also generally cost-prohibitive -- plane tickets regularly run in the $1000-range, and Tokyo currently sports the highest cost of living of any city in the world (followed closely by Osaka). However, it's all relative -- day-to-day expenses aren't too far from what one would pay during a trip in America or Europe, so travelers from those areas shouldn't be too surprised.
How to make the dream reality: Set your parameters. If cost is your concern and adventure is your ultimate goal, you may want to avoid Tokyo and Osaka altogether. Use their airports as hubs to get to smaller regions like the southern Kyushu (pictured above right) or the northern Hokkaido purchase a Japanese RailPass to access other smaller towns. If your heart's set on Tokyo, cut costs by catching lunch boxes at department stores ($5 for a nice meal) and sticking to local restaurants with cheap noodles. Stay in youth hostels and the efficient business hotels if you're willing to sacrifice a little space. Rent a bike (about $30) or use the city's extremely efficient rail system to avoid transport costs.
Cheapest upcoming airfares from Chicago: $736 to Tokyo (December 3-14), $759 to Tokyo (February 10-24), $759 to Tokyo (March 2-10) (source: Sidestep)
Current currency exchange: 86 yen / 1 U.S. dollar; 129 yen / 1 euro (source: XE.com)
Least-trafficked travel times: February-March / September-November

(sources: epinions, Kristin Johannsen; img: red ernest)

4. New Zealand
Dream counter: 1,489,102 users want to go to New Zealand.
Why are we putting it off? Perhaps NZ's association with Middle Earth makes the country seem like the stuff of far-off, unattainable fantasy -- vast landscapes populated by dwarves and centaurs, maybe. Like Japan above, New Zealand's remoteness goes hand in hand with higher travel pricetags and scheduling difficulty, and its dollar has appreciated quite a bit in recent years.
How to make the dream reality: The best part about "off-season travel" in places like New Zealand: Their concept of "seasons." Even while seasons run opposite of the Northern Hemisphere, weather in NZ's off-peak fall months from April to June is pretty mild (generally hovering around 50-60 degrees Fahrenheit). If you're in New Zealand for its extreme sports expeditions -- it is the birthplace of skydiving, after all -- then you might have to make some budget sacrifices in the way of food, beer and lodging. You'll want to set aside around $75-$100 per day for expenses, and more if you wish to up the ante in hospitality.
Cheapest upcoming airfares from Chicago: $1180 to Auckland (June 4-15), $1180 to Auckland (May 13-30) (source: Sidestep)
Current currency exchange: 1.39 New Zealand dollars / 1 U.S. dollar; 2.10 NZD / 1 euro (source: XE)
Least-trafficked travel times: October / November, April / May
(img: Kiwi Mikex)

3. Brazil
Dream counter: 1,547,622 users want to go to Brazil.
Why are we putting it off? Good question. Brazil isn't nearly as remote or expensive as its counterparts in this list. Perhaps it's this Southern vs. Northern Hemisphere opposite-day madness that keeps us from coherent planning. But it'd be wise to not put it off much longer -- 2014 is Brazil's coming-out party for the World Cup, while 2016 sees Rio hosting South America's first Olympic Games.
How to make the dream reality: Wait to book that flight, for now. Right now fares are a little difficult and the holiday season doesn't help matters. After the holidays -- and then after Carnaval in South America -- you can typically get airfares for around $700 round-trip, depending on where you come from. Brazil is so much more than the two huge cities (Sao Paulo and Rio) that tower in its confines -- Salvador, while still a large city, is rich with African cultural heritage, gorgeous shores and its day-to-day expenses can be a little bit cheaper.
Cheapest upcoming airfares from Chicago: $897 to Sao Paulo (March 23-March 30), $859 to Rio de Janeiro (April 7-21)
Current currency exchange: 2.63 Brazil Reais / 1 euro; 1.75 Brazil Reais / 1 USD
Least-trafficked travel times: March to May (after Carnaval), September / October
(img: Adam Jones, PhD)

2. Italy
Dream counter: 1,590,144 users want to go to Italy.
Why are we putting it off? The euro's not getting any weaker. Still trying to figure out if Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi's mind is all there, too.
How to make the dream reality: As long as you know the euro is out to crush your purchasing power, you can plan accordingly. It's not that bad -- not as bad as the pound, at least -- and airfares for the coming off-season are relatively affordable. If fares shoot up, it's become common practice for the shrewd jetsetter to fly into one of Europe's cheaper hubs -- Dublin is the best example -- and use the preponderance of budget airlines to make your trip to and through Italy. Budget airline RyanAir has regular flights from Dublin to Milan for around 16.99EUR (about $24) and to cities throughout Italy like Rome, Palermo, Pisa and others (pictured left: Amalfi Coast). Dining costs can get a little steep -- stick to local trattorias and pizzerias if you can, as they are most likely to offer authentic Italian cuisine at lower prices.
Cheapest upcoming airfares from Chicago: $667 to Rome (Feb 23-Mar 16), $573 to Milan (January 29-February 28, and other dates)
Current currency exchange: 1 USD / 0.666 euro
Least-trafficked travel times January - March; October / November
(img: Jimmy Harris)

1. Australia

Dream counter: 2,175,746 users want to go to Australia.
Why are we putting it off? Australia sits in its own cheerful corner of the planet. It ain't easy to get to nor affordable for anyone. Its mystique as a playground for rugged wild children (I blame Road Warrior) may make it feel bit out of reach in the minds of starry-eyed but budget-conscious, more refined world travelers.
How to make the dream reality: Off-season travel, in all honesty, can be difficult to gauge in many countries -- some cities are affected more than others by weather, some unexpected countrywide holidays can cause congestion and more. You have to prepare yourself should anything get out of hand. But in Australia, their rainy / windy season isn't exactly the same throughout the continent, which means there's a great destination with relatively solid weather to be had. It should also be noted that if you set aside enough cash, tours set up by travel agencies and other groups can actually give you bang for your buck when you're in Australia as opposed to many other tour guide groups.
Cheapest upcoming airfares from Chicago: $1197 to Sydney (May 12 - Jun 2), $1287 Melbourne (June 2-16)
Current currency exchange: 1.09 Australian dollars / 1 USD; 1.64 Australian dollars / 1 euro
Least-trafficked travel times: June - September (rainy / winter season)

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Touting Time: Culinary travel, Nomadic graphics

A few landing spots in the travelsphere that we've been diggin' on as of late:

• For the adventurous eater, it's not a stretch to plan an entire trip around one's meals. Celebrations International Travel Blog takes a detailed look at the trends of the culinary travel industry, pulling some interesting headlines and offering advice on savoring tastes on trips. Author Adrienne enlightened us to some pretty jarring developments in world-class landmarks -- the inimitable Sagrada Familia church in Barcelona now features a Starbucks, and that the most revered art museum, the Louvre in Paris, is set to open a McDonald's inside. As a dedicated foodie she's none too pleased. Her recent posts display insightful and personal commentary about the concept of multiculturalism and feeling like a fish out of water when traveling. Adrienne and her husband Agni run Celebrations International, an agency that books ardent restaurant hunters to the most divine eateries worldwide in addition to traditional tours, with an emphasis on getting a feel for local tastes wherever you go.

• As we learned from our recent guest, Gary Arndt, you cannot underestimate the value of a good, clean photo. Every picture tells a story, a picture's worth a thousand words, all those good hackneyed phrases. But maybe these maxims aren't hackneyed enough -- crisp snapshots often go ignored in favor of text around the travel blogosphere, text which may or may not stoke the senses as effectively as a picture almost always can. James Clark at Nomadic Notes has a steady eye for evocative photography, his posts benefiting from their brightness and brevity.
  
  His recent globetrotting has produced charming shots of old and new Europe, from Belgrade (pictured left) to Amsterdam to London, and his archives are rife with some gorgeous portraiture from his native Australia, like this post on the country's wildlife. James weighs in with level-headed commentary from time to time as well, his aforementioned Belgrade post deftly running down the restored glory of the former Yugoslavian city. In all, Nomadic Notes makes for a classy, no-frills addition to your travel blog bookmarks for its to-the-point approach and engaging photography.
  

Q&A: Why Backpacking Isn't Just For Hippies

They're a group of travelers often plagued by stereotypes. They're just too busy moving to stop and defend themselves.

Backpackers have plied their craft for decades in different incarnations, loosely defined by their slim budgets and light packing. But characterization pretty much stops there -- these aren't just collectives of 21-year-old rolling stones on the hippie trail who delight in not bathing. They're often quite the opposite -- grizzled business execs, adventurous mothers of four, even more adventurous grandmothers of twenty -- countless people of countless backgrounds all engrossed in and addicted by the freedom and thrill that comes with a simple approach and wide-eyed attitude to traveling. They're a community always looking to welcome new members and share their stories and advice. With that in mind, we've gathered some of the best and brightest in the game to share their invaluable experience and secrets to convert the unconverted -- that unexpected item that saves your trip, when it's okay to splurge, and why a trip to Southeast Asia is ideal for beginners.

Like our post last week on the wonders of Mexico, our expert roundtable again has a diverse group of experts with much wisdom to offer. Without further ado, our esteemed backpacking gurus:

Shawn Stafford is an experienced solo backpacker whose upcoming world excursion is being documented at his blog, Rerunaround. Follow him on Twitter @shawnosaurus.

Brian Peters is a respected and well-known travel blogger who keeps travelers informed about the least expensive ways to travel the world. He is the author of the upcoming e-book, No Debt World Travel: The Ultimate Guide to Traveling Around the World – Even in an Economic Downturn, which is not only a handbook for anyone who dreams of traveling around the world, but is also filled with inspirational stories and reflections from world travelers. The e-book also includes audio and video files available for instant download. Peters’ blog, No Debt World Travel, was recently recognized by BootsnAll Travel as one of the “Best Round-the-World Travel Blogs” for 2009.

Kate McCulley is currently anchored in Boston, but she lives to get away as often as she can. She recently spent time in Buenos Aires and dove into Mexico to take advantage of the prices due to swine flu. While her first love is backpacking through Europe, particularly Italy and France, her latest love is for fabulous Las Vegas. Check out her blog for advice, stories and run-ins with Ice-T, and find her on Twitter @adventurouskate.

Dawn Miller just got back from a business-oriented trip to San Diego, California and spend just $20/day on lodging. While her colleagues were spending $200/day on lodging, she was saving her money for a long, south Caribbean adventure next month, taking her to Barbados, St. Vincent and most of the beautiful Grenadine Islands and St. Lucia. And if there's money left -- Grenada! She's visiting her in-laws, several real estate projects as a Realtor and Certified International Real Estate Specialist, and just exploring many great islands! Follow her on Twitter @DawnMillerHomes and her site here.

1. Let's say I'm an amateur / first-time backpacker. What city or region, in your experience, would be most likely to transform me into a bleeding-heart backpacker for life, and why?

Southeast Asia is the best region for anyone to get started in. The weather is warm to tropical, the food and accommodations are cheap and the people are friendly. Places like Thailand and Cambodia can provide everything from big city attractions to lots of animals and outdoorsy things to do - all at affordable prices. Europe is a little too expensive for the first time backpacker and to me, a bit overexposed.

- Brian Peters

Maybe one of the classic locales like Thailand or Guatemala (pictured left) would be best. You don't want it to be too similar to your home. And you also don't want it to be too shockingly crazy either.

- Shawn Stafford

While most would associate "back-packing" to European countries or even Australia, I have an extreme addiction for the Caribbean. With a bit of planning, while having the ability to still remain flexible, one can truly "island-hop" on even the smallest budget. A trip to Santo Domingo for business I discovered a cargo ferry going to San Juan, Puerto Rico twice a week for as little as $90 roundtrip. Or the daily, affordable ferry leaving Trinidad going over to touristy sister island Tobago. Though the ferry only takes a 3-4 hours, is very reliable and leaves several times a day, most mainland Trinidians never visit. Or my next trip to St. Vincent and the Grenadines where I can visit many smaller islands for around $20-30 round trip. The smaller the island, the more helpful and accommodating the locals are, and the more opportunity you really have to be taken care of by them.

- Dawn Miller

2. There are some myths and stereotypes surrounding backpackers and the practice of backpacking. Which myth irks you the most and why?

Not all backpackers are 21 year old potheads. Surprise!

- Shawn Stafford

That backpacking is for the young only, or just out of school or that it is not for families. That the backpacker lifestyle is one of few baths and being hungry all the time because you're not eating. All wrong, all wrong! Of course the stereotypes play better in media since the bad stories attract more attention. But they are not true. I've met whole families, including husband, wife, infant, baby and grandmother in a hostel. Every demographic is represented backpacking. The vast majority of backpackers like showers and eating and do both while on the road.

- Brian Peters

The myth that "backpackers" are grimy, non-educated, near homeless nomads is just not the case! I would rather bunk with five complete strangers in a hostel as a single traveler on a budget than not to have visited the country or city at all. I would rather pack limited amount of clothing and wash them several times than to have paid hundreds of dollars in checked baggage! Whether its business or personal, I often find myself traveling alone. These are the most rewarding experience as I really have no other choice than to "fend for myself" and to talk to locals and understand more about the country, culture, food, city, and more.

- Dawn Miller

3. Packing lightly is surely a must. But what item, perhaps overlooked in the past, has surprised you in how much you've used it on backpacking trips? How come?

I've never touched a bandanna in my home life. When backpacking though one is surprisingly super-handy. A bandanna will save you from horrible sunburn, stop the bleeding, hold all the berries you pick, blindfold a hostage, keep the sweat out of your eyes, tie things to your pack, be an impromptu tablecloth, or even work as the worst blanket ever. Douglas Adams advises every galactic hitchhiker has a towel for many similar reasons. I never leave home without a towel either.

- Shawn Stafford

There are a few things that will always double in usage, as you need them. I always make sure I carry some rope to tie my bags together, which also doubles as a clothes line.

- Dawn Miller

I always thought traveling with my iPhone would be a bad idea, but it has been SO useful, even without any phone signal! I convert currency instantly, I use the translator, I read classics like Around the World in 80 Days for free, I Facebook chat with my friends at home when I'm in a cafe with Wi-Fi. It's really a miraculous travel tool.

- Kate McCulley

4. Careful budgeting is on the minds of many backpackers. Still, either before or during an expedition, what have you found yourself spending a little extra on to ensure a successful adventure? Why?

Never cut corners when buying shoes. Nothing will ruin your backpacking life faster than cheap shoes. Good shoes not only protect your feet and keep you mobile, but they also help your knees, back and state of mind. Underwear may be a close second.

- Shawn Stafford

Sometimes you just have to splurge to ensure that you have decent place to stay. If you haven't done your research beforehand and arrive in a new area blind, you don't want to stay in the first place you find if it is a dump. There are some real dives out there and you've got to bite the bullet to stay at the expensive place. Hopefully that expensive place is just another hostel for $10US more.

I did splurge on my birthday to get over to Macau and stay at the Venetian for a weekend. That bill for TWO nights could have easily paid for a room in SE Asia for a month but I don't regret it. It's my birthday!

- Brian Peters

As a single, female traveler, I always put safety in front of inexpensive. I have been fortunate to have friends living in the other countries I have traveled alone to, or have local contacts made through friends where I am visiting. Spend a few extra dollars and feel safe and maybe even have a few more amenities!

- Dawn Miller

5. In planning or researching a trip online, what have you found to be a valuable resource?

YouTube has a lot of great videos on what to see at a destination! That surprised me. It's a great way to get a sense of a destination before you arrive and find out about some places to see.

- Kate McCulley

Fill an RSS reader with all the blogs, sites, and tools that you can find on backpacking. They'll randomly cough up tidbits and advice that you need to see. You'll see articles and ideas that you never thought to Google on your own.

- Shawn Stafford

6. Dorm living, hostel-hopping and couchsurfing lends itself to meeting some otherworldly people. Who has been the most interesting / bizarre person you've bunked with and why?

Oh my God, I've met so many odd people in hostels and from couchsurfing. There was the time I woke up in London, the only girl, while nine guys slept in nothing but their underwear and money belts. There was the couchsurfer in Buenos Aires who greeted me by licking my face. But most memorably, there was the Italian man in Budapest who kept kissing my friend's hand, then proposed to her, then introduced her to his whole extended family, including his wife, who laughed and was clearly used to his antics.

- Kate McCulley

I have been fortunate enough not to have an extremely bizarre person that I had to room. To be honest, I had to think about this question. Maybe I am that bizarre person, or hopeful I am just a tolerant person. However, the answer is: an American! She did not want anyone in our room, didn't want to talk to anyone, didn't want to share anything, not even a stick of gum. We were stuck with her for three months!

- Dawn Miller


(Many thanks to our contributors!)
(image credits: Chantal Foster, GoGap, Brian Dreilinger, feserc)

Q&A: Why Is Mexico So Freakin' Awesome?

Tulum, Mexico

Hey you -- yeah, you -- stop hogging the party punch and get over here. We want you to meet a friend of ours, and they just so happen to be freakin' awesome. Some notes before you go. Yes, we are aware: staggeringly gorgeous, but try not to trip over yourself. They're the modest type, so stare silently in awe and just soak in every last corner. From the old-world beauty and turquoise waters of its Mayan Riviera to the magnificent mountains of Monterrey, you could get lost for decades just trying to record every inch of greatness in its vast landscape. And speaking of old-world, we can't think of anyone who balances that charming tradition (see: monolithic step pyramids in Chichen Itza) with such sharp modern sensibilities (see: vibrance of modern Mexico City), retaining its heart and character despite having been through countless struggles over thousands of years. What's that? You're shy? Don't speak Spanish? Poor excuses, muchachos and muchachas. If you need any more convincing, we've got plenty of more reasons why you should meet Mexico -- we've rounded up the Web's top experts and travelers to give us the inside scoop on what makes this dazzling nation one of the world's most fulfilling trips. Now andale!

Our esteemed roundtable features Mexico experts from many backgrounds:

Bruce Poon Tip is the CEO of Gap Adventures, a massively successful travel company that serves more than 90,000 thrill-seekers each year with an emphasis on sustainable and authentic experiences. Check out his site here and follow him on Twitter @brucepoontip.

Stephanie Diehl is the owner of Travel Designed by Stephanie, which specializes in destination weddings and honeymoons, group trips and solo adventures. Follow her on Twitter @traveldesigned.

Jessica Lomelin was born in Cancun to a Mexican-American family and has traveled the country far and wide. She blogs here and tweets here.

JoAnn Miller has lived in Mexico for forty years and is a specialist in English as a second language. Follow her on Twitter @jabbusch.

1. Mexico has spectacular ancient ruins. Which ancient historical site awed you the most and why?

I think I have to say Tulum. First of all the first time I went to Tulum was 15 years ago and the area surrounding was very different back then. Playa del Carmen was a hidden gem and there was yet to be something called the Mayan Riviera! The spectacular thing about Tulum for me is its location. Overlooking the warm blue seas. The contract between the bright turquoise water with the ancient stone grey is spectacular. I also like to imagine the ancient Mayan people roaming the grounds and bathing in the warm waters. Kind of like a Mayan summer beach house!

-- Bruce Poon Tip

Being from the Yucatan, I'm going to have to say Tulum. It's an amazing area with such history, culture and breathtaking scenery. You can feel a spiritual presence and learn a tremendous amount of information. For the soul seekers, I recommend visiting during the solstice and equinox. Locals venture out to Tulum to celebrate the turning of the seasons and celebrate with the Mayan gods.

-- Jessica Lomelin

I think the smaller sites are often the best. Teotihuacan is too touristic now. It is nice to go once, but I'd really recommend: Monte Alban in Oaxaca (on a foggy day you feel like you are in a magical floating city), Cacaxtla in Puebla (for the murals, but it has been closed for the last few years for restauration) and Xochicalco in Morelos (the site of a prehispanic "astronomical convention" to regulate the calendar--it also has an observatory).

-- JoAnn Miller

2. We've heard there are beaches outside of Cancun. What beachside community do you consider the best in the country and why?

I have to say I am partial to Mazatlan. Not necessarily because of the water but more because of the community. It is a great place to roam the streets and very easy to get around. It is still very inexpensive and harks back to the days when Mexico really appealed to the original snow birders. It is just the right size with a enough tourist to give it a bit of structure but not too many that it loses its charm.

-- Bruce Poon Tip

The Riviera Maya has so many spectacular beaches. The beach at Zoetry Paraiso de la Bonita is fantastic. It is part of a protected area near Puerto Morelos. The beaches of Tulum and Akumal are incredible as well. But the best beach in the entire Riviera Maya, in my opinion is Playa Maroma. The color of the water and the depth of the beach is like none other I have EVER seen.

-- Stephanie Diehl, Travel Designed

It's hard for me to share my secret gem, but I am in love with a small, bohemian beach town outside of Cancun called Akumal (pictured right). It's a small, small area that has one villa, one small grocery store and a handful of locally-owned restaurants. It's the type of place where you sit with your toes in the sand, enjoy the locals and a few families strolling around and indulge in your fish and ceviche that was just hand-picked from the ocean moments ago. They also have a lagoon that offers one of the most serene, picturesque snorkeling areas. While it's small, the quality of untouched terrain and schools of fish and natural sea life is hard to come by. You'll find the gate owner, who is around 75+ yrs old, and has been there for decades and decades. The village is very simple, untouched and serene. It's one of the few areas outside of Cancun that you can escape to and feel like you're in a whole other world.

-- Jessica Lomelin

3. What is the most treasured possession that you've purchased from Mexico, where did you get it? Is there a good story behind it?

I have so many souvenirs from Mexico, my husband says I could open a gift shop of my own!! Mexico is a country full of amazing artists and their works are in so many different mediums. There are works of art available in every price range.

I LOVE Oaxacan art the best. The fine details of the painted alebrijes (pictured left) and animals are really nice. I also love the black pottery, especially pieces that have cut out patterns so I can put a candle in them.

I have recently been turned on by Pineda Colvina silk designs and have started a new collection of those. I have a huichol pattern I am extremely fond of as well as a Diego Riviera and a Frida Kahlo. Those two I intend to frame.

Huichol art is fascinating as I cant imagine the patience it takes to place all those tiny beads in such intricate patterns.

There is also Talavera -- painted pottery. It can be found in two typical varieties. One in the traditional blue on white designs or brightly colored paints. The brightly colored are often of fruit or jalapeno designs. In Los Cabos I visited a gallery that featured something new to me, black on white designs, which were striking.

I also enjoy, but unfortunately don't own, Sergio Bustamante works. REALLY cool works of art.

Don't forget the silver, silver jewelry and table ware, silver trays, frames and boxes, silver EVERYTHING!! Pewter is also very affordable in Mexico as well and many fine pieces to be had.

On a more affordable level, I like nicely hand painted or handcrafted magnets. In Puerto Vallarta, near the Malecon there is a jewelry shop I love to visit that features miniature paintings that I adore.

-- Stephanie Diehl

4. I want to impress a friend with an expert-recommended, delicious dish. What menu item do you consider essential to a Mexico visit, and if possible, where would you buy it from?

I love the cream soups of Mexico. But something new to me is sangrita -- a sort of bloody mary mix that is a non alcoholic side drink to a glass of tequila. Each bartender in Mexico has their own special recipe.

-- Stephanie Diehl

Mexico's cuisine is too vast to cover in a few sentences. It really depends on the part of the country and the time of the year. Most dishes can be found in Mexico City, but they are better in their homeland: Puebla: mole poblano and chiles en nogada (Fonda de Santa Clara), Oaxaca: mole negro, rojo and amarillo, Michoacan: carnitas and pozole, Yucatan: queso relleno, cochinita.

-- JoAnn Miller

I would say a classic meal that you must order when on the coast is Ceviche (pictured right). It's a cocktail of fresh seafood topped with lime and salsa. It is unbelievably fresh and to die for! To eat like a local, you must eat at the taco stands and order the specialty's, whether its tacos al pastor or quesadillas con queso oaxaca. Finally, top it off with a glass of Jamaica or Horchata.

-- Jessica Lomelin

5. What Mexican city do you feel deserves far more tourism fanfare than it's been given? Why?

One of my favorite cities is 160 miles northwest of Mexico City, called Queretaro. It's very colonial and contains a beautiful mountainous landscape. You can visit the iglesias and stroll through the markets on cobble stone streets. The history and preserved culture makes you realize why Mexico is such a fascinating country.

-- Jessica Lomelin

Well to be honest the city I think that deserves more tourism fanfare is Mexico City. Too many people see it as a crowded unsafe place to visit. But Mexico City is fantastic and while you must be careful like any capital city in the world, it has so much to offer. So much culture, heritage and endless entertainment. There is fine food, wine, museums and outstanding nightlife. I think it is one of the most and underrated cities.

- Bruce Poon Tip


Many, many thanks to our experts, and let's hope their words inspire you to get to this wonderful country.

Strange Love: Weird Romantic Getaways Across The Globe

(source: Flickr)

If we've learned anything from Bonnie and Clyde or the annual Kate Hudson romantic vehicle, love makes people do funny, inexplicable things. But some types of love isn't fit for mainstream audiences. To loosely quote the immortal Meat Loaf: "I would do anything for love... but I won't do that." Today, as you're surely aware, Meat Loaf's vague idea of "that" can be more readily obtained than one ever might have imagined -- all the evidence you might need can be found within the Craigslist's "casual encounters" section, and it's not just a bunch of people proclaiming they will walk 500 miles (or 500 more). These star-crossed, alternative lovers need romantic vacations like everyone else, but they need something more -- something particularly special -- to kindle that spark we were talking about. We're here to explore these idiosyncracies of the human heart for all the couples and potential couples who need a travel destination to explore their feelings. If your idea of a romantic retreat might involve ironing a shirt while hang-gliding at 10,000 feet or a conference of leather and motorcycles, then you might wish to read on. If not, it's still wise to get educated -- you never know till you try.

STAR TREK CRUISE
Ft. Lauderdale, Florida, through St. Maarten, St. Thomas, Grand Turk

(source: startrekcruise.com)

Sometimes conventions just aren't enough to bring out your inner Klingon. The folks behind the official Star Trek Cruise know this, and they've equipped their event to ensure love can be found at nearly every corner of their ship. Proud sci-fi couples and bachelors have the opportunity to meet actors behind the characters from all editions of the TV and movie franchises, catch screenings of old episodes and flicks and carouse with like-minded fans. The Caribbean Sea isn't the final frontier and the boat isn't exactly the S.S. Enterprise, but this seems like the closest thing to a proper on-board meat market that a Trekkie can attain.

EXTREME IRONING
Recommended actions: Hang gliding in California, mountain-climbing in Colorado, water skiing in Florida

By design, the word "getaway" means leaving behind the unending, soulless routine of domestic responsibilities. Then there's extreme ironing. Yes, it's a real "sport," and it's helping ho-hum old couples fight their wrinkles in countless ways. Your hubby's Oxford shirt or wife's blouse may not achieve that ideal level of crispness when you're whipping in the wind as you lay your makeshift board upon the arched back of a lover, but that's not exactly the point. For one, your shirts and blouses need a reason to shine at your next dinner party, and extreme ironing is the only way to make plaids patterns appear 3-D. Secondly, it's sort of beautiful in its symbolism for long-term lovers -- it says sure, we're gonna take out the trash and do the dishes for the next fifty years, but you and me, we're gonna make it sexy and extreme every single time.

FANTASYLAND HOTEL
West Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

So much fetish, so little time. Or so say the folks behind the grab-bag themed hotel Fantasyland, who literally bet the house that they can provide any unique fantasy a couple might desire. But we're not talking the sleazy-depraved-type fantasy -- they leave those for the love motels (or the folks listed below this entry). These fantasies err more along the cuddly, historical, and dorky, transplanting you via wallpaper and decor to create your most colorful love scenes. 120 of 355 rooms are equipped with themes. Ever wanted to get cozy in an igloo but can't stand the cold? Thought so. There's even a Jacuzzi! Want love like the Polynesians but can't make the flight overseas (or get a time machine)? "Drift off on a warrior catamaran boat under full sail" or "slip into a giant Jacuzzi surrounded by lava rock, being filled by a gentle waterfall," just like the movies (or Polynesia?). Or you could pick the room with the truck in it. Restrictions: Zilch. Except that they aren't real. There's that.

(photo: West Edmonton Mall, via Flickr)

CARIBBEAN KINKINESS: LEATHER IN ALL WEATHER
Jamaica

Ah, leather. What can't it do? Despite what you might have seen at the Bass Pro Shop, it's practical apparel for a deep-sea fishing trip. In fact, the folks at "Kink in the Caribbean" (linking to their site brings up all sorts of non-work-safe wonderment, so Google at your own risk), the world's island vacation scene for the obscene, high-heeled and pain-loving, would prefer that you wear leather for all types of island activities. Or wear nothing at all, if that's your bag -- clothes are optional pretty much everywhere you go. Whatever happens, couples or singles who attend the seven-night Kink in Jamaica must be more than confident in their own kinkiness or they'll leave with a host of unwanted welts and bruises. The island literally a becomes a wink-wink nudge-nudge "playground," with every dank dark dream encouraged as long as you play "safe." Just make sure you plan your pain threshold accordingly -- this from their site: "Sand can be extremely abrasive on the skin…Jamaican palms are quite often the home of nasty red ants…the sun can get excruciatingly hot." Not just trip advice: Life advice. (photo source: kinkinthecaribbean)

HONORABLE MENTIONS

Motorcycle Resort
Western North Carolina

When a travel agent describes something as "thigh-tingling" and "tire-burning," make sure you know what you're getting into. Leather lovers the world over can trek through the Great Smokie Mountains at Mountain Brook Resort for a Harley honeymoon.

Psychic Cruise
Barcelona

If you felt some strong energies that we'd list this, then this might be the cruise for you: ESP, clairvoyance, spirituality from other dimensions, Miss Cleo -- if you feel you maintain a level of consciousness that needs a seven-day reprieve from the "normies" of this planet, you'll find the Sea Angels Cruise through Europe to be quite rewarding to find the swami of your dreams. Take classes to up your craft, have mind-conversations with fellow riders, talk smack about how the world's not ending in 2012 but actually 2034 -- this is romance, people.

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Ice Breaker: Winter's Best Bets For Snow Sports

"I do not participate in any sport with ambulances at the bottom of the hill," so said noted humorist Erma Bombeck. "There are really only three things to learn in skiing: how to put on your skis, how to slide downhill, and how to walk along the hospital corridor," said Lord Mancroft of Britain. Ski fanatics appreciate quips like these; if it means their lift lines will be less crowded, then they're more than content to let the haters keep hatin'. There's no denying that attaching plastic boards to your feet and whipping down an icy hill for sport could eventually require medical attention, but that's kinda the point. The raccoon mask tan left by the goggles isn't attractive, either: People do pretty messed-up things to achieve those few seconds of endorphins, and as mountains and lifts expand become cheaper and more plentiful, it's a risk more and more people are taking. They're spraying powder all over, from the classic purple mountains majesty in Colorado to the glistening Alps of Switzerland to the daring peaks of... Wisconsin? (Yes, Wisconsin.) Leave the fearful humorists behind to find out the best places to get your ski on, whether you're pizza / french-frying on the bunny slopes or cutting black diamonds.

COLORADO: STILL THE ONE

Vail, Colorado
Opening: Nov. 20

Vail has been touted as the finest skiing in North America since the 1970s, and there's no reason to stop touting-- the mountains never left, after all, and Vail happens to host the highest ski mountain in North America. It's also seen its share of substantial development in that timeframe, fashioning a European-style village centre with eclectic restaurants and family activities accessible by the city's free public shuttle service. Even if you can't get enough of Vail's charm, fanatics have been buzzing ever since the introduction of the Epic Pass, which grants unlimited access to a half-dozen ski resorts (Vail, Beaver Creek, Breckenridge, Keystone, Heavenly [in Lake Tahoe], Arapahoe Basin).

Vail saw a dip in tourism due to the economic downturn last year, but it has reportedly already seen a 13 percent increase of business in anticipation of the upcoming season. Perhaps it was in part due to the fact that Colorado has already seen a nasty fit of snow in October, which undoubtedly gave some natives cabin fever, waxing up their boards and skis weeks in advance. Colorado is also amping up interest by running their "Snow At First Sight" video contest, where poor souls who have never seen snow can win a chance for a three-month adventure.

THE GREAT WHITE NORTH

Whistler Blackcomb
Whistler, British Columbia, Canada

When you're focusing on not hitting a tree, it can sometimes be difficult to stop for a moment to understand that you're over a mile above sea-level and standing upon snow-draped monoliths. Many of the finest resorts carry gondolas to rein in that extra thrill. The mercifully slow, enclosed vehicles are a major reason why Whistler Blackcomb reigns as the best skiing in Canada, as their gondola rides between two mountains stretch a full 2.75 miles.

But it's not just that gimmick that makes Whistler one of the perennial stars of the ski world. The area has over 100 restaurants and dozens of shops, its far-reaching diversity pleasing tourists from all continents. They've put in millions of dollars over decades to make Whistler the best, and it very well may be.

Whistler will see a serious uptick in traffic due to the 2010 Winter Olympics in Vancouver, but it will be where the serious action happens.


CLASSIC SPLENDOR

Grindelwald / Zermatt, Switzerland

It's only natural that the birthplace of traditional skiing as we know it today, the Alps, still houses some of the absolute best sites in the world for winter sports. Grindelwald, roughly an hour outside the Swiss capital Bern, hosts an old-fashioned European ski town complete with smoking-chimney chalets, with mostly mom-and-pop hotel joints that provide an authentic immersion experience. Its centerpiece glacier has seen serious effects from increasing temperatures over the years, but it remains a landmark reputed for decades and featured in various films. Make sure to book your trip to the charming small town in advance, as its popularity has increased exponentially over time.


Zermatt remains one of the premier sites in all the world, as its long seasons, lengthy runs and presence on the stunning, jagged summit of Matterhorn mountain have amplified its presence among the ski world at large. Like so many Swiss ski towns, the village is passenger car-free to reduce emissions and instead served by electric shuttles. This is another site to book early, but if you might want to avoid holiday crowds and opt for early- or late-season tours.

BEST OF THE MIDWEST

Granite Peak Resort
Wausau, Wisconsin
Early season opening: November 21

To some Midwesterners, the Rockie Mountains are but a distant, expensive pipe dream, the stuff of postcards -- winter sports in the Great Plains revolve around ice hockey. But the Plains are less flat than they're given credit for, enough for more than just saucer sledding. Charles Skinner sure thinks so -- he invested $15 million to open Granite Peak in 2000, opening the floodgates for a new breed of slopes ideal for the crowd less inclined to lease a timeshare out West year after year but who still want a similar quality experience. Skinner's resort features a 710-foot drop with 75 available ski runs equipped with some of the fastest ski lifts around, jetting you back to the top in just three minutes. That can make for an exhausting day, but you can rest easy by the fireplaces at the two homey chalet lodges. 710 feet up doesn't exactly mean snow at all times, but 500 snow guns ensure the powder is fresh year round. In all, Granite Peak is an impressive attempt to mimic the best aspects of America's best resorts. Read more about it and book tickets here.